Bonding and intermolecular forces are like marriage and dating. Marriage is a tight bond that connects people in a relationship. This bond of marriage is supposed to be unbreakable and takes lots of energy to destroy. Likewise, dating is a relationship between two people that is strong, but it also can be broken. There is much commitment holding these two individuals, but they are connected nonetheless.
An example of a real-life chemical equilibrium is a mood ring. A mood ring is a ring that you can wear on your finger that changes color based on what "mood" you're in. What really happens in a mood ring is that the color of the chemical inside changes based on what your body temperature is. The ring is filled with thermotropic crystals that change position in line with temperature. As the crystal's molecular structure shifts to match a new equilibrium, the wavelength of the light produced changes to make a new color. Therefore, the stressor in this equilibrium is obviously temperature. Furthermore, since this is about structure, not equations than it is a little harder to determine side favorability, but it can be assumed that the reaction is favorable to the left/reactants since the ring shows more red and green colors while it is heated.